Why do men always want to be worms in latex porn? she asked me
‘Oh dear, this is going to be potentially a long philosophical answer’ I thought. And trying to explain this to someone who didn’t have a clue, might also be embarrassing for me.
One guy came to me, had a fetish into nylons. He wasn’t into worms, or cross dressing, just tights – but there is a very similar parallel I am going to describe to you. I turned him into a silk worm. I wrapped him up in layers of nylons, encased in the socks until he looked quite plastic from the moiré effect of the sheer layers, and he was unable to do anything but wriggle like a worm.
For the same reason many people like bondage, and restriction, check out youtube for all the people applying self bondage to themselves, and worming around on the floor. Google sleeping bag bondage and you’ll see girls wrapping themselves up in homemade bondage bags, and squirming around in what appears to be a giant ribbed worm of a sleeping bag.
‘Imagine if that was all in latex’ I said to one guy, who nearly creamed himself. It would be all slimey on the inside, like being inside a woman. Either a giant woman, or an embryotic fantasy. A worm and its lack of ability for thought, engaging in a sensory deprived fantasy is the simplest rationale of fantasies with an objective. Women have those same feelings, only we might say we want to worm around in the bath tub as a mermaid, or enjoy being tied up, or enjoy a vacuum bed session like you see in latex porn. Women want to be valued so we are less likely to undermine ourselves to the position of a worm. We may also go for objectification or humiliation, but its more about the manner that it is done, rather than the role in which we play.
When a man wants to be a worm, he may not be implying he wants the humiliation, he may simply want to absolve himself of being responsible. He could go into his mind without thought, and in bondage, restriction and deprivation, simply enjoy the focus that the moment will give him without the wider complication and thoughts in the world. It is for this same reason many people experience fetish in so many different ways to introvert into their fantasies and escape for a time away from reality.