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I don’t mean turning your new girl friend into the next fetish porn star. So, you have a new girlfriend and you want to come out with it that you want to enjoy your interest in latex porn, with her.

Well don’t get too presumptuous and hopeful that she’ll take to it. With some women there’s no doubt about it that you’re walking on glass when it comes to anything they might view with some disagreement. We’re a different species and we get turned on in different approaches than a man, even if we share the same fetish. During my time making latex clothing and introducing it to a mainstream audience, most were female customers who had never  thought about, or been near latex, and regarded it,  bashfully in my presence to be rather risqué, but fun. This gave me the impression that from neutral perspective, ignoring the porn and kinky perversions, many women were impressionable. This revealed to me latex itself was not so much a problem, as to the context and direction to which you introduce someone to it.

“I feel sexy” One customer smiled, then sneakily “It makes me feel dirty” she wriggled and smirked while trying it on. I knew what was on her mind! I had to laugh, at the amazing openness and perspective I’ve had with introducing women to latex, compared to the difficulties men had with their wives.

“My wife thinks everything I am interested in [latex porn] is wrong” he wasn’t even a fetishist, but he found it sexy and was dismayed that his wife found it in competition to his liking for her, and rather ‘sick and perverted’. I’m afraid that case boils down to how many years he had kept his viewing of latex porn a secret, and how open he was with her in the first place – although, there are some women who will defy the likes of latex fetish. You’ll be sorry to meet one of those if you’ve put high on your hopes for imposing your satisfaction out of latex porn early in the relationship rather than hers.

I am a fetishist, but when a previous housemate of mine insisted on sticking some latex porn on the telly, then pissing off in the background to maid around, ignoring the latex video while making me a cup of tea, even I would get pissed off. A woman’s mind thinks differently about how she wants to be pleased, you can’t just use latex porn as a background for what might satisfy you in the hope it will set the atmosphere. Hint number 1, don’t use latex porn as wallpaper as a lazy way to set up a sexy evening. As a latex fetishist, I used to get pissy after a couple hours of ambient invasion with squeeking and rutting going on the telly, while I tried to finish my work or do other things. By evening, I had done with it all. I don’t want latex porn imposed on me like a guinea pig suffers background music as some experiment. Hint number 2, even if you want to watch it, don’t invade anyone one else’s space of atmosphere by sticking it on public broadcast in the room. Don’t even ask for permission, because then she’ll be obliged to give it. You have then pushed into her boundary and she now has to put up with it. I don’t care if you are dressed up and ready for action, you become in the woman’s eyes the dick that isn’t really interested in her foreplay.

A woman wants to enjoy feeling sexy. Sticking porn on in the room as some background for yourself or some experiment for her, is ultimately you uncomfortably enveloping her in your bubble. Women love presents, and to be cherished and shown off. That makes them feel sexy. Not showing you off. Buy her the rubber dress if you want to experiment. Take her to a party in that rubber dress, get her photos in that rubber dress. Tell her how sexy you think she looks. Go shopping WITH her to get another rubber dress, she might start to look around at other ideas – just like my customers did on their return with their boyfriends. Start sneakily sending her images of what you think she would look sexy in – do not imply it’s the the woman in the image but the way the rubber sucks into her form. You might think Bianca Beauchamp’s tits look great in rubber, she’ll get to think she can’t compete with Bianca even in the real. Before you know it, she might start sharing the voyeurism with you. This is where latex video on demand is great. Small minutes at a time, privately viewed on each other’s laptop, not necessarily viewed together, keeps your embarrassment or disgust to yourself while you learn about each other’s limits and progression

Will it ever go as far as experimentation? That’s what a growing relationship is all about, keeping the adventure going. If you already anticipate you know what you want, and stick it in her face, she has nowhere to go with sharing her new exploration.

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