By Lady Onna, on July 13th, 2010%
Why do men always want to be worms in latex porn? she asked me
‘Oh dear, this is going to be potentially a long philosophical answer’ I thought. And trying to explain this to someone who didn’t have a clue, might also be embarrassing for me.
One guy came to me, had a fetish into nylons. He wasn’t into worms, or cross dressing, just tights – but there is a very similar parallel I am going to describe to you. I turned him into a silk worm. I wrapped him up in layers of nylons, encased in the socks until he looked quite plastic from the moiré effect of the sheer layers, and he was unable to do anything but wriggle like a worm.
For the same reason many people like bondage, and restriction, check out youtube for all the people applying self bondage to themselves, and worming around on the floor. Google sleeping bag bondage and you’ll see girls wrapping themselves up in homemade bondage bags, and squirming around in what appears to be a giant ribbed worm of a sleeping bag.
‘Imagine if that was all in latex’ I said to one guy, who nearly creamed himself. It would be all slimey on the inside, like being inside a woman. Either a giant woman, or an embryotic fantasy. A worm and its lack of ability for thought, engaging in a sensory deprived fantasy is the simplest rationale of fantasies with an objective. Women have those same feelings, only we might say we want to worm around in the bath tub as a mermaid, or enjoy being tied up, or enjoy a vacuum bed session like you see in latex porn. Women want to be valued so we are less likely to undermine ourselves to the position of a worm. We may also go for objectification or humiliation, but its more about the manner that it is done, rather than the role in which we play.
When a man wants to be a worm, he may not be implying he wants the humiliation, he may simply want to absolve himself of being responsible. He could go into his mind without thought, and in bondage, restriction and deprivation, simply enjoy the focus that the moment will give him without the wider complication and thoughts in the world. It is for this same reason many people experience fetish in so many different ways to introvert into their fantasies and escape for a time away from reality.
By Lady Onna, on June 30th, 2010%
Stop feeling sorry for yourself if you think you have to watch it all alone! Stop and think if you are guilty of these things?
Do you keep a fetish wardrobe of stuff hidden rather than properly stored, bundled, or strewn wherever you last left it because you think you can get away with being a little untidy or hurridly hiding your fetish secrets? Don’t think that crushing it all in the allotted wardrobe is good enough my dear. You really think that you are taking care of things by allowing them to tear against each other each time you pull them out? I bet they are all stuck to each other!
Do you keep your fetish wardrobe spotlessly clean, I mean freshly clean, you should smell that lovely rubber like a perfume. It should be an aroma, but is there something wrong with the smell? Does it smell old or mouldy? Some of you plug playing pervs had better listen carefully, keep it separate, keep it fresh, theres no worse smell than rubber wardrobe contaminated with something old and off. It’s a natural product after all, susceptible to bacteria and decay, and you are putting that next to your skin…
Do you own latex that is more than so many years old, and you think thats alright don’t you, because after all no one else is going to see it right? I’m warning you, If I catch anyone with an old cheesy wardrobe I think I would sooner haul them to trash yard for being a horder along with the crumbly crappy wardrobe. Give me a slick new gimp not a crumbly repair job one. I don’t want hand-me-down gimps.
Do you dutifully look after your latex, like the real asset that it is, do you fervently polish it to a mirror to match those boots, even taking it out of the wardrobe once in a while to reapply that slick gloss to it? Do you think a lady would no less look after her jewellery and not get it polished?
Think about all these things, are you guilty? Would a woman in her right mind pair up with someone who can’t take care of themselves personally, which is metaphoric to not brushing your teeth, let alone being able to look after your mistress and companion? No wonder you are banished to your latex porn alone.
Your latex wardrobe is personal, it represents you. She will see that, so take the best care you can of yourself, and she will see that too. You cannot adore, respect or love anyone more than what you have in yourself, she will see that you are lacking and incapable of your ability to care for her. Take heed my warning. If you run guilty of these facts watch that you have set yourself up to fail with women, and live with latex porn alone.
By Lady Onna, on June 25th, 2010%
How unusual, I think I have a problem! How and when to introduce a new man in my life to latex porn? Well it shouldn’t be a problem should it? Considering everyone that knows me also knows that I know everything about rubber and latex porn, – he should be the least surprised person in my life. But wait, actually he knows nothing about fetish, nothing about any of this, he’s open to suggestion and ideas, supposedly, but up until now enjoyed quite a fulfilled and satisfied life without anything deviant. He says he has no desires, no games he wishes to play, no judgement of me, and although interested in ‘other things’ it’s not critical to the wellbeing of our new relationship.
Ideal!
I get to start a new life of exploration, but wait a minute… How do I even go near the fact that I know and have even done things that he probably hadn’t heard of, let alone if he really would accept! Hmmm dilemma. I know stuff, I am happy knowing stuff, I’m happy with latex porn in my life, and he knows it. But do I share it, do I expect him to share it with me? Do I want him to share it with me? If not, am I keeping the old cliché relationship secret? Not if he agrees he couldn’t care less! All the more for me then!
For a minute there I was feeling bad again that I would dare admit to someone that having a fetish means I get turned on by something out of his control, but where the problem would be is if he couldn’t turn me on, and then I had to rely on my latex porn. But this isn’t the case, I can choose if I want to go watch it, and get all hot and bothered by it, but then he will only receive the outcome of that. It’s not like he’s going to say no, nor do I have to shut my eyes and think of nothing but latex porn to carry on. So my question has changed from how and when to introduce him to latex porn, to DO I? Not if I can help it! This is my little thing which he accepts and he can ask if he wants it. (Mean while I have the upper hand and control over what I want heh heh, so I can still put ideas in his head!)
By Lady Onna, on June 12th, 2010%
It covers the full range from standard porn, made-at-home porn and then the downright bizarre. None of it may be as big budget as some of the bigger feature porns currently out and dabbling in a bit of latex styling now and again. So why look at latex porn? As it’s mostly low budget, and small production groups enveloping even the home movie makers there’s has to be something to be said for respecting their inventiveness for keeping sex creative. OK, some things that can be done using latex are so niche to various fetishists’ interest that it may not be everyone’s thing. However, every fetishist knows that their thing for wanting to fuck a blow up penguin might not entertain everybody else and certainly won’t keep the entertainment going for 40 minutes – so the penguin fuck thing might only be a 5 minute insert in the whole film.
It has to be watched for the curiosity value alone. I don’t mean that if you happen to know up-the-butt sex isn’t for you then by applying the same principals you would rather ignore latex porn thankyouverymuch. A couple I spoke to, who aren’t indulgent fetishists, but happy party swingers love the fetish appeal of latex porn. It gives them ideas, games to play, strange equipment ideas to rehash from the low budget movie to play and share with their party folk. Like the whore in a box-cock sucking machine from karezza’s video of Stephanie.
Watching latex porn is a bit like the sci-fi B-movie of all porn. It’s for nerds who get a kick out of contraptions as well as sexily dressed girls. The ideas are sometimes ingenious, sometimes funny, which is great for quietly breaking the ice on revealing you have a deep inner perversion. It’s for learning about some of the safe and basic play you can have at home with rubber and it’s for learning about limits and safely balanced power play.
If you are a porn lover, then here is one thoroughly outlandish video to watch:
‘Stephanie’ by Karezza Videos. A slave girl gets taught all manner of learning to relinquish her body to rubber.
By Lady Onna, on June 9th, 2010%
I don’t mean turning your new girl friend into the next fetish porn star. So, you have a new girlfriend and you want to come out with it that you want to enjoy your interest in latex porn, with her.
Well don’t get too presumptuous and hopeful that she’ll take to it. With some women there’s no doubt about it that you’re walking on glass when it comes to anything they might view with some disagreement. We’re a different species and we get turned on in different approaches than a man, even if we share the same fetish. During my time making latex clothing and introducing it to a mainstream audience, most were female customers who had never thought about, or been near latex, and regarded it, bashfully in my presence to be rather risqué, but fun. This gave me the impression that from neutral perspective, ignoring the porn and kinky perversions, many women were impressionable. This revealed to me latex itself was not so much a problem, as to the context and direction to which you introduce someone to it.
“I feel sexy” One customer smiled, then sneakily “It makes me feel dirty” she wriggled and smirked while trying it on. I knew what was on her mind! I had to laugh, at the amazing openness and perspective I’ve had with introducing women to latex, compared to the difficulties men had with their wives.
“My wife thinks everything I am interested in [latex porn] is wrong” he wasn’t even a fetishist, but he found it sexy and was dismayed that his wife found it in competition to his liking for her, and rather ‘sick and perverted’. I’m afraid that case boils down to how many years he had kept his viewing of latex porn a secret, and how open he was with her in the first place – although, there are some women who will defy the likes of latex fetish. You’ll be sorry to meet one of those if you’ve put high on your hopes for imposing your satisfaction out of latex porn early in the relationship rather than hers.
I am a fetishist, but when a previous housemate of mine insisted on sticking some latex porn on the telly, then pissing off in the background to maid around, ignoring the latex video while making me a cup of tea, even I would get pissed off. A woman’s mind thinks differently about how she wants to be pleased, you can’t just use latex porn as a background for what might satisfy you in the hope it will set the atmosphere. Hint number 1, don’t use latex porn as wallpaper as a lazy way to set up a sexy evening. As a latex fetishist, I used to get pissy after a couple hours of ambient invasion with squeeking and rutting going on the telly, while I tried to finish my work or do other things. By evening, I had done with it all. I don’t want latex porn imposed on me like a guinea pig suffers background music as some experiment. Hint number 2, even if you want to watch it, don’t invade anyone one else’s space of atmosphere by sticking it on public broadcast in the room. Don’t even ask for permission, because then she’ll be obliged to give it. You have then pushed into her boundary and she now has to put up with it. I don’t care if you are dressed up and ready for action, you become in the woman’s eyes the dick that isn’t really interested in her foreplay.
A woman wants to enjoy feeling sexy. Sticking porn on in the room as some background for yourself or some experiment for her, is ultimately you uncomfortably enveloping her in your bubble. Women love presents, and to be cherished and shown off. That makes them feel sexy. Not showing you off. Buy her the rubber dress if you want to experiment. Take her to a party in that rubber dress, get her photos in that rubber dress. Tell her how sexy you think she looks. Go shopping WITH her to get another rubber dress, she might start to look around at other ideas – just like my customers did on their return with their boyfriends. Start sneakily sending her images of what you think she would look sexy in – do not imply it’s the the woman in the image but the way the rubber sucks into her form. You might think Bianca Beauchamp’s tits look great in rubber, she’ll get to think she can’t compete with Bianca even in the real. Before you know it, she might start sharing the voyeurism with you. This is where latex video on demand is great. Small minutes at a time, privately viewed on each other’s laptop, not necessarily viewed together, keeps your embarrassment or disgust to yourself while you learn about each other’s limits and progression
Will it ever go as far as experimentation? That’s what a growing relationship is all about, keeping the adventure going. If you already anticipate you know what you want, and stick it in her face, she has nowhere to go with sharing her new exploration.
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